What is the deal with as soon as you play a game you get hounded by A/S/L?

It is horrible.... I think that if you are going to at least talk to a person you shouldn't just come straight forward and say A/S/L. Oh my gosh if you don't answer either some people get really nasty. Personaly I would rather just Force Forfeit or quit the game. You should say hi and gl I think that is all that is required. They do have chat rooms for anything else. It is a game people.